When you carry a purse everyone tries to stuff their junk in it.
I learned that the difficult way.
Anytime our friends & I went to a store, concert or on holiday, everyone was trying to put things in my purse. I would end up with tons of wallets, many sets of car keys, currency & all sorts of garbage. It made our bag heavy & rough to close. Why was I supposed to carry all the people’s stuff? The worst was when everybody was smoking cannabis flower too. I had so many pre-roll joints, rolling papers, loose flower & lighters in our bag as well. I felt like I was a drug mule. I then changed to carrying a genuinely tiny wristlet. I loop it around our wrist & it barely fits anything. I can stuff a debit card, license & our vape in there. That is about it. All our girl friends bummed me with a big purse. They now have to carry their own stuff, but frequently they want to leave stuff behind & just mooch. No, I am not going to start buying the drinks at the bar & sharing our vape with other people. I made the trip to the cannabis dispensary, pre-loaded the oil & thought about bringing it. I am not going to let all the people vape our cannabis oil since they don’t want to carry their stuff. Men genuinely should just carry purses. I feel they want to carry more stuff than women periodically. They should be the 1s holding big bags of all sorts of cannabis items.